The Folly of No Decision
Let's flip the assumption equation on it's side. Is it possible that your non-clarity can contribute to someone else's assumption?
Could it be that part of the problem with assumptions is that the other person is picking up on your fluctuating energy? We're not abdicating personal responsibility here. However, let's explore how we may contribute, albeit unknowingly, to the equation.
When your energy is not clear and open you do not have access to the kind of laser focus required to make a choice. Depending on which stream someone picks up on, they might be ‘right,' then your energy shifts and they are ‘wrong.' The same thing happens with you and other people's energy. Can you see how easy you can fall into the wrong rail, ‘the assumption?'
Two very common fluctuating energy patterns that are often encountered are: “I am confused.” or “I can't make a decision.” Go beyond your initial surface impression and notice . . .
Does the energy feel diffused, like it hasn't gelled yet?
Does it feel dispersed, like it's all spread out?
Are you holding it back, tampering it down?
Do you feel no movement?
Are you limiting the movement?
Are you trying to control the pace of the energy?
Resistance to awakening, limiting your self awareness, can show up in so many different ways. Not deciding, not choosing your energy, is making a choice. The more that you can tune into the nuances of energy and feel the differences, the quicker you'll access your sensing and your knowing. You will then be at choice!